Probably between 3. & 4.
Having been a bit of a bodger on old Jap bikes in the past I found it not particularly difficult and doesn't need any BMW special tools however the front end is particularly fiddly due to the sheer amount of plastic bits and a multitude of bolts and is very time consuming. It's a good idea to have plenty of space around the bike to lay all the bits out with their relevant screws/bolts as it'll make reassembly so much easier.
Most of the videos say you have to remove the airbox but I managed to get the front shock off by removing the tank (surprisingly easy but make sure you run it to empty first) and then moving/forcing the airbox back on the rubbers to get at the front top bolt but a long torx bit and a 1/2" socket set were handy.
In comparison the rear is comparatively easy once you've removed the electrical box under the seat, undone the bottom bolts on the subframe, loosened the top and then you can swivel the whole rear subframe up and out of the way. On mine I had to hacksaw off the exhaust clamp bolt as it had rusted solid but I suspect most other bikes would be in better nick than mine.
I'll be honest it took me around 5+ hours to remove and about the same to replace. Plus a bit of time to wander off and get coffees, look at some youtube videos when dismantling and the realoem parts website when reassembling.
Tools? A decent small socket set (eg Halfords) for the small torx bolts/screws and a 1/2" set for the shock bolts. A half decent torx set is worth it's weight in gold (I used this one
https://www.toolstation.com/draper-tx-star-hexagon-and-spline-mechanics-bit-set/p66212). A bottle or trolley jack under the engine with wood & axle stands helps to line up shock mounts when reassembling. I only needed to get one of the airbox to injector rubbers off to get at the front shock wiring and managed this with a pair of water pump pliers on the clamp. You're supposed to use a pick to release some of the electrical connectors from the frame but I managed it with my smallest allen key. You'll need some cable ties to re-tie the electrics if you've got ESA. I suspect a torque wrench would be a very good idea but I skipped that part
The biggest problem I had was the 2 week time gap between stripping the bike, sending off the shocks and then reassembling as I'd forgotten the order the front fairing parts went back together ! The realoem site is dead handy here.
I'd happily do it again.